The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #112788 Message #2391654
Posted By: Ed T
17-Jul-08 - 03:20 PM
Thread Name: sexual gestures
Subject: RE: sexual gestures
Is this guy on to something, or is he from outer spece?
Whad'ya think?
Exerp: Our primitive emotional brains, which includes both men and women, are hardwired to feel attraction when certain conditions are present. These conditions USED to be (in evolutionary terms) ACCURATE indicators of VALUE, but are NOT necessarily accurate TODAY. In the past, it may have made SENSE to be attracted to a guy who was for example, too busy to spend too much time with her. Or a guy who was not so nice.
TODAY, however, if women's brains had CAUGHT UP with society's progress, women would be ATTRACTED to "nice guys".
Nice guys are GOOD for women. They are out for the woman's best interests. They CARE. They are not selfish.
However, accurate or not, the fact is that our BRAINS, and women's brains, STILL activate the feeling of attraction ONLY when those ANCIENT switches are pressed. And only ONE of those switches has to do with looks.
ALL THE REST DO NOT HAVE TO DO WITH LOOKS.
And once those switches go on, NOTHING ON EARTH can change that feeling unless you activate the switches that command the brain to STOP feeling attraction and to instead feel REVULSION or just as bad, INDIFFERENCE.
And just what are these switches that trigger SEXUAL ATTRACTION?
Well, this is a HUGE answer, but for now, I will tell you what few others have ever been told:
ALL WOMEN'S SEXUAL ATTRACTION BOILS DOWN TO HER DESIRE TO BE WITH A PERSON WHOM SHE DEEMS RADIATES SUPERIOR POWER.