The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #112788   Message #2392032
Posted By: *daylia*
18-Jul-08 - 09:05 AM
Thread Name: sexual gestures
Subject: RE: sexual gestures
I dunno where he's from, but he sure lives in lah-lah land!

ALL WOMEN'S SEXUAL ATTRACTION BOILS DOWN TO HER DESIRE TO BE WITH A PERSON WHOM SHE DEEMS RADIATES SUPERIOR POWER.

??!!??? ..... dream on ....

So what are the CUES that a woman's brain registers as you being SUPERIOR?

Let me give you just a few right here:
-Not having too much time to talk
-Not being serious about relationships
-Having a confident style of humor
-Not buying her fancy dinners and gifts
-Never seeking her approval
-Not being "judgmental" about her lifestyle.

You see, a woman interprets a guy who actually HAS made a lot of time available for her as a desperate guy.

She thinks that a guy who seems very serious about relationships as a guy who probably can't get one.

A guy who buys dinners? Well, that's just a guy who thinks that maybe DINNER will get him laid. That can come off as not only desperate, but CREEPY....


Yes to the confidence, humour and being non-judgemental, but the rest makes no sense at all. Making time to talk and listen, taking the relationship seriously, giving me nice things, taking me out and feeding me, wanting or at least being interested in winning my approval -- all these things make men attractive, to me. THe powerful, superior ones can all go take a powerful, superior hike.

Around powerful Lake Superior.

:-)