Play louder so you won't be bothered by the whining.

I married a person who has never liked banjos or fiddles or particularly cared for the music I have loved since I was a child. When I hurt my hand and had to give up the fiddle in favor of the banjo she told me awhile back she traded one headache for another. But the income of 50+ jobs a year buys a lot of asprin.

Play the fiddle as long as you can, I wish still could.

Don