The question is not and has never been whether any church should change, Ake.

What a church allows or does not, within limits, is their own business.

Where has anyone said churches should change??

And you are mistasken about the issue if you think that civil rights for one group lessens those rights for another. What kind of a "right" is it to say "What we shall enjoy under law, you shall be forbidden"?


And, finally, why do you say anyone is losing in this matter, other than those who are denied civil status in their relationships?


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