So that I may properly counsel my own children, could ake and GfS please tell me the story of how and when (i.e. at what age?) they chose to be heterosexual. I would really appreciate the details of their thought processes(es) that led them to their lifestyle choice. In particular, since I am not a professional counselor, I would like to know what is the "proper" thought process for a 12 year old, so that s/he can arrive at a proper and moral lifestyle choice.

Thanks very much.