Joy, You are dialed in! The damage the pop media has done is immense..
and who is the target audience?? Young teens in their formative years. It cripples them, and unless a miracle happens, it cripple their children as well. Here, let me post a piece of music(I'm sure some won't like it..Amos might like it, if he's out there..) just for you.. a woman singing to her man, a beautiful song...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3ym8pZhOPDI

..enjoy...warmest regards!