Perhaps my language is more blunt than some, but that is quite typical of Western pioneer people. We say what we mean. If you looked a bit deeper you would see that, in most of my posts, humor is a major element. If you new any Westerners you would be amazed at how many have a well-developed sense of humor.
As far as you being a role model for me, that ain't gonna happen, so don't spend one little moment worrying 'bout it.