"I usually expect you to be more openminded than that. All I've tried to do is point out that there is a stink being made about this movie. I haven't called for it to be banned. But yes I will stand up and say that the word retard is offensive to me. As it is to you. So what's the problem? How am I on a high horse? "

Wesley, I am being very open minded - but you seem to ignore that.

You are right, we both agree that the word "retard" used as a noun is offensive. So if you are not on a high horse, then why would you accuse me of being on one?

What you are failing to acknowledge is the fact that films, books and other art forms CAN use such offensive words in telling a story or creating a vile character that does not draw sympathy but exposes a flaw. You have prejudged a movie based on your preconceived notions of the cast. These are actors and they are playing a role. Judging this role without having seen the problem in question is the same as judging a person you have not met based on physical appearance.