Banjobenny, sorry you had so much trouble with this and welcome to the Mudcat.

If you will put the words HearMe in the Search box at the top of the threads or in the Filter Box and set the date back abut 90 days, then click go, you will find many threads which have a lot of helpful info about the program and what we all have learned by trial and error.

One thing I can think of offhand is do you have a Mac? Is so, it won't work for HEarMe. The folks at HearMe say they are working on a Mac friendly program but so far no go.

The other thing is if you have Netscape...sometimes folks have problems getting it with that, so you might try it with Internet Explorer.

One of us goes in there almost every evening so there will be plenty of chances. I know it can frustrating, but hang in there and you are bound to figure it out, either through something in one of those threads or through someone else's seeing your posting and coming up with better suggestions than I am have.

Good luck...it will be worth it and I look forward to *meeting* you in there sometime.

katlaughing