My good buddy, Len Wallace does a song called "F^ck Off And Die" that really gets me 'over the hump'...

But seems to me yer looking for good "wallowing" music...

Old Ferron...
Garnet Rogers has some good ones too...
Stephen Fearing's 'Welfare Wednesday' is a good song to poen a vein to! Or his "Turn Out The Light"
Old Kris Kristofferson, like "Pilgrim" or 'Sunday Morning Coming Down'
Any and all Old Leonard Cohen... Even some of his new stuff, if you can avoid the cheesy love songs...

Just my few suggestions...

Hope ya get over it...