Mrzzy, I am very sorry to hear about your situation. Separation from our children comes soon enough as they grow and go off in their own direction, but it is tragic when the separation comes as early as yours has. I haven't experienced anything close to what you must be going through, but as a recent member of the empty nest club I find singing "CALLING MY CHILDREN HOME" allows me to express my feelings of loss. I learned this one from the Emmylou Harris Spyboy CD, written by Lawson/Waller/yates. I hope this helps.