Jack,

               I suspect the problem you're having with this thread relates to the verbiage in the title. The lady might very well not have known she was going to get pregnant, if so, judgement doesn't come into it. And if she did, she could not have anticipated the child's condition.
               The crowning oversight in the title seems to indicate that having a child with a condition like this is not a responsible action, somehow.
               A little editing might fix the problem.