Firstly, please don't call the lady in question a "cow" for she truly is not. You are ALL out there gunning for me to get this right, with your help I WILL manage this.
I went to a festival today and went straight to the normal sing venue, but it was empty, not a soul at all! So the next move was to buy a prog. & go to the new sing venue, when I got there I found man who was running it sitting outside with 2 non singers, no one else had turned up, however I did go to both venues with words & with the determination to sing, had there been a sing I WOULD have sung for sure. The rest of the afternoon was spent watching my 16 year old morris dancing, when we got back to the car we found that a sing / session had started in the first pub! Sadly we where on a very tight time schedule (That means late) so we had to dash. Next chance is a folk club some distance from here on Wed. night.
Thanks again everyone
Skipy