About the baby..unless he has heart problems, which sometimes they (Down Syndrome and I think Down's Syndrome, which we have always said should be OK but I will go along with it..do we say Sjogren Syndrome. No we say Sjogren's syndrome. Lots of syndromes have apostrophes. Oh well.) Anyway, I don't know that he would require extra special care above and beyond what any infant would need. I am sure she will get any special enrichment activities he needs. I would prefer women and men with very small children not be vp or p but she probably won't win. Her little girl might be another story. I don't know. They do have a father who can take them on snowmobile rides. Or out on boat rides..mg