"where do you suppose his daughter come up with those words/ideas?"

Kat - from experience. Did you watch the entire interview? She is 23 and not a media pro by any means. Do you sincerely think that her intention was to go on national television and slur all the families that have sons and daughters in the military? Suppose, for a second, that she was that self-centered - do you think ANY of her media handlers would allow her in front of a camera? Do you think her book publisher would chance the backlash and the loss of revenue?

Come on, you are more open minded than that. Walk a bit in someone elses shoes.   This is not something that we need to be making a big deal over. We end up looking bad.