Should also mention that Heather (at the ripe old age of 31) learned to ride a bicycle in a cemetary. Fortunately she shared my lack of apprehention around the departed and we often went for long walks there. I don't have a clue whether a part of us survives after death, and I certainly don't think that anyone else knows. I sure do know that every country and culture through history is willing to pay those handsomely who say "they do know".

Now the folks who talk to vegetables (and get answers) make me wonder.(grin)

Rick