flattop,

You got a lot out of what I wrote that I did not say!

I was asking the writer to look at it from the viewpoint of the one who had misunderstood, to think about how s/he would like to be treated! You know-- that Golden Rule thing! When the shoe is on the other foot??

And since you brought it up, why do you bait me? I don't like it, nor do I have much time or the energy for the viewpoint gyrations it takes to answer you responsibly. I'd rather be friends. Much more fun.

~S~