There is a book out, a must read! The title is a bit deceiving, as the author admits, in the book, but it is a fantastic book, being used more and more in counseling, both in secular and in church counseling. And, if you haven't read it, don't bother commenting on it..."The Care and Proper Feeding of Husbands" by Dr. Laura Schlessinger...and the companion book, "Woman Power" ...Guaranteed to blow you away!