i have to honestly admit that although it was read to us on remeberance day i have truly forgot it i am not sure if the son in the casket was without cap it could have been that he was wearing mismatched sox or that his shoes were in disaray i cant remeber i just know it was some breach of ettiquete or nother just dont remeber which one maybe he was wearing white after labor day but the friend got a sweet deal out of it and i think that was the point or i forget that part too anyway it wasnt no picnic for the parents that much i do know