Jeanie, I realize that you prefaced your comments by saying that "to each their own" and I agree with that.

But I want to say that I don't mind in the least men wearing baseball cap, T-shirt, and sweatshirts when they are being informal, and when they are engaged in recreational activities. That said, it depends on what the baseball hat, T-shirt, and sweatshirt says.

I have no problem what so ever with men who have a shaved head or very short hair. As for tattoes, again, I think it depends on what the tatoo is. Also, it depends on how many tatooes there are and where the tattoo is. But if the question is do I find a large number of tattoos on a man's body to be attractive-regardless of what the tatoos are and where they are, I'd probably say no. That said, I could "play pass" {ignore} that if there were other redeeming features ;o}.

But, Jeanie, I'm not sure what you mean by "long baggy shorts". Are they over large "boxer shorts" that are worn as outer wear? Or are they sagging, overlarge pants that are popular among some American teens/young adults? If so, I agree that that's not a clothing style that I'd like to see males {or females} wear.

Also, Jeanie, what did you mean by "knitted jumpers"?

And when you mention "shoes (not trainers)" are you referring to what Americans call tennis shoes {gym shoes; sneakers/sneaks}? If so, are you saying that you don't like men to wear those during informal, "down" times times or when they are involved in recreational activities?

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