You often find that a man who is secure about his attire and appearance - in a way not needing to make statement about himself, nor need to draw attention - who is comfortable in his own skin, often has quite a calm personality within. I call then 'sorted' men. Hard to define but you certainly know when you meet one. They have a calm aura of sorts. I am not on about the type who could not give two hoots how they look at all, never wash or change, and generally look rather rough. That goes too far in my opinion.

That is not to say that a gentleman's man in suit cannot have a great personality too. Of course they can.

Does casual clothing mean casual personality? Not at all sure but I have met some wonderful men who are just plain chilled out sartorially and as people.

It's not as if I am some Mona Lisa. I am not that easy on the eyes no matter how I dress! However, I am of the opinion that a woman should always care about how she looks and what she wears. As I said in a previous thread... We are women. We have double-standards to live up to! lol

;-)

mp