John from Kemsing if you're looking for a local folk club see the Fox and Hounds Folk Club thread. I run that, and Orpington Friday Folk. A few years ago, we were recording a live c.d at Orpington, and put up a notice on the door politely asking people not to go in and out whilst the guy was singing. Not only was this ignored, but someone slammed the door causing us to lose 3 songs which tied in together. Compared to that, leafing through your song book or using a crib sheet is a minor misdemeanor!