Came here a bit late. Me too Sleepy Rosie. I'm 63 though. Been singing all my life. All sorts of songs -- whether they suit my voice or not. Funny effects at times. Tried a lot of things. My voice is one of those clear, pure ones. Not light though. I'm a throw-back to the musichalls. I never have fitted in with what has come to be the fashionable "folk-style" -- and that's the music I really love. Doesn't matter really. In my case a high singing voice does not mean a high speaking one. My speaking voice is quite low. I'm able to sing in that low range but it doesn't work for me.
I understand the problem of a voice like this getting in the way of the song. I dislike the use of "style" and the use of vocal tricks. When people compliment me on my voice, I'm gracious but a little disappointed. I know they've been distracted. I myself get distracted when I become conscious of trying to change my style. I don't want that. I want to sing songs because I love the songs. Have to keep singing the only way I always have. What a rave. Anyway I understand. Good luck. I'd love to meet you. Love to hear you sing and sing for you. Love to share a song or two.
Cheers, Joy