harpgirl, please read the thread I posted called Women's Song Circle. Not only will you see that your idea is a good one, I can guarantee that withing 10 minutes you'll be feeling a whole lot better.

If I could get over there and give you a huge (Mama) bear-hug I would, but I can't, not within the next 24 hours anyway - so just shut your eyes and feel it in cyber-space.

Luv-ya Helen