One very useful thing - someone mentioned the Baby Bjorn, which we have and has been very helpful. Something even better than that, for once the baby's a little older, is the Baby Ergo. Getting the baby in takes practice (or help) but once you do, it's incredibly comfortable for both parent and baby - and either parent can use it. Unlike the big frame baby backpacks, it takes up no space in the car or the house. They are a bit expensive, but worth it.

And you'll also want a grain of salt for all the advice we and others give you. Every parent finds their own way.

Dan