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Thread #117173   Message #2521984
Posted By: GUEST,Guest from Sanity
22-Dec-08 - 04:11 AM
Thread Name: BS: Lesbian Question???
Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: Bobert
Date: 21 Dec 08 - 12:13 PM

".........Now I ain't got no problems with gay folks and "some of my best friend are gay" but ain't 5 emails a day too much??? I mean, like one at 1:00 am, another at 3:30 am and then another at 8:00 this mornin'...

I donno???

Anyone have any insights???"

Without laying a value judgment on the homosexual thing..I know, for absolute sure, that in counseling(marriage and family), when people begin opening up, explaining their emotions, and what-not, one of the thing the counselor, observes, is certain things in their behavior. Sometimes, and without even being conscientiously aware of it, the client will display certain traits, which could be a 'clue' to the root of some of their problems. Believe it or not, a homosexual may display 'tip off' points,..which is NOT all the time a desire for the same gender, as themselves, or resentment towards one(or both) parents....the indicator that leads the counselor to pursue a line of questioning to determine if the client, either has homosexual tendencies or not, is 'emotional immaturity'. Without getting into all the particulars, (which anyone who is really interested, I'd post...but not to argue or debate), you might look at her OBJECTIVELY, and see if that's what is going down, in her behavior.
Happy to assist....(limitedly)....and do not wish to debate the subject with anyone, who does not have an education in this field.