One of my cats left me Bee, I had two in my office that I rescued. Wilma and Betty both American bobtails that I have had for 4 years. Betty left me, I saw her with a little neighbor girl 4 houses down and doesn't want to come home. I spoil both of them to pieces but I guess Betty found a better home to be with. Wilma her sister is now always on my lap at my office. I have been rejected.   Now I am use to be rejected by females ... but now even female cats reject me ... OH boy !!