I didn't actually get married util I was forty, and always thought that a bit early really, although I've never been remotely close to straying.

Most of the time before this i got involved with women who were a bit like chasing a bar of soap around the bath. If you look for things too hard it often ends in disappointment; more often than not love will creep up on you slowly when you are least expecting it. Just get as active and varied social life as you can, and see what happens rather than all this internet rubbish.