The classic example is that the ideal woman is a lady in the living room and a whore in the bedroom. Although the woman who was seeking to hook up with you may have been jumping the gun a bit on where the relationship was, she was clearly trying to get you to extend yourself a bit.

My ex-wife met me several times before we got together for an extended period. Lady Hillary met me at the New York Boat Show, where I was working in the art gallery. She was attending the boat show and I was not particularly looking for anyone. We took our time on the relationship and it has endured for 6 years, now.

Don't be too judgemental about the morals of others. Try to accept them as they see each other. It will make everything a lot easier.