If I'm covered by health insurance at work, I can add a spouse and children under my care. I can't include anyone else. Those are the options.

                  In states with community property laws, if I own a house, my spouse owns the house as well. I can't exclude her/him, and I can't sell the house without her/his cooperation. Those rights only pertain to a spouse.

                  I won't try to second guess homosexual goals, but the government is treating them differently than other citizens. That's unconstitutional.