To be honest.... before I met my current honey I dreamed and dreamed of not having the tedium of taking care of a onesided relationship. It was terribly difficult, thankless and just not worth the energy. I was worried that every relationship would be like that and was quite prepared to be blissfully alone... until I met my current love.

So I can understand where RB is coming from.

Like I said I am lucky. I don't have to work at it. We rub along beautifully together. We enjoy each other's company. We have the same interests.

is all good.