Believe me Azizi, it's taken years of contradictory training and subliminal learning to make me into the erudite (and potty mouthed) person I am now... I didn't realise my mother even knew the F word until I was 22. She was so constrained that she couldn't even tell her daughters that our grandmother died of breast cancer - because she'd have to explain what a breast was. She told us it was lung cancer. Gee, thanks for not mentioning the hereditary aspect, mother. And I won't even start with the 'facts of life' talk.....

LTS