All men talk too much; and they acknowledge too little.

The same can be said of women.

Men who are trained in Western cultural modalities have a deep yearning for admiration and a deep terror of being revealed as flawed or vulnerable. This makes it very very hard for them to discuss how they actually feel about things.

A smart woman learns to deal with this the same way a circus trainer manages a giant tiger. A little whip, a little chair-in-the-face, and a lot of encouragement and affection.


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