In response to Wrydolafr.
I think that you are not out of step in 2009, I think that your concerns are intrinsic to a whole new evolving contemporary male female sexual dynamic. And it's one in which I genuinely see the difficulties for the modern man, trying to adapt his way through a plethora of contemporary cultural complexities and bullshit inherited - from a heap of blanket incurrances from, and then unintegrated anti-thetical reactions against - Christian dogma against sex, instinct and in particular the tempting female body.

I personally have no problem recognising that young attractive women would wish to use their physical attributes for financial gain, any more than their intellectual or artistic ones. I also have no problem with men - or women - wanting to look at explicit imagery in order to gain some pleasure and excitement from them. Men and women want to fuck and to look at other people fucking. I do however think that the porn and glamour industry might think a little more often about what interests women sometimes. Then perhaps we might not feel so excluded or objectified in the whole business.

I'd personally prefer to see the glamour and porn industry guided by the hands of older experienced women in the feild than men... Possibly because I prefer the idea of brothels run by older ex-pro 'madams' more than male pimps who only see the money and benefit, and never the immediate personal pain or cost of their industy.