There are people out there { male and female } that are "addicted to the attraction phase". They give off all the right signals - but once they own your heart they lose interest and move on. Most of them don't even recognize the problem in themselves. They hurt a lot of people that way and it sucks. But "guest" - in the long run wouldn't you rather have the emotional equipment you have now as opposed to being one of them? At least you can feel something - the "attraction addicts" can't. Just remember - "this too will pass". Stay open to your next opportunity - it will come eventually. You'll be glad you did.

"When God closes a door He opens a window - but damn those hallways are dark"