I don't know if we choose people completely on that basis, "hole filling," but if Kendall had spent a second night at the Holiday Express he might have added that we are not always driven apart by the things which attracted us.

Fifteen years later, I have no idea what attracted me to Karen, but 20 minutes from the time I met her, I knew I wanted to marry her......and I asked her a couple of days later. She fills gaps in my life as I do hers (and she can tolerate my crap...a major plus), but we both felt the same attraction then as we do now. Although I must add, the love is much stronger now and the feelings grow every day.

I think I need a night at the Holiday Express or a few at the NYCFTTS, because I have no idea what draws us together or tears us apart. For all I know its fate, because in the case of Karen and I, I have no other explanation.

Spaw