Gosh, Spaw, you are getting downright fill-oh-fos'cle...might make that degree pay off, yet...but, yeah, what you said and then some...I have no idea why Rog and I have managed 21 years and still it seems to grow in depth and meaning. I do think a major part of making it is not expecting each other to be everything for one another; gotta have friends and some independence for it all to be balance, imo.

kat