It's passion that makes us feel alive. The pain that you are feeling now is the price that is part of the bargain. You can love without passion, just as you can live without love. But what's the point? I know this is all small comfort. But the only thing that will help to ease your heart is time. Passion and pain both wane, in time. The worst part is the way your world shrinks as passion fades. Be strong. Be grateful for having had the chance to feel things that deeply. Not everyone gets that.