Petra, Cats is an adult and is indeed free to make whatever decision she feels is right for her at this time, but right now, she also needs to know how much she is loved and valued by the people here, Im not going into details, but I for one am happy to say how much I love and value her as a friend, and that when she is ready to come back, or just drop by, Ill be here and happy to welcome her with open arms. Waiting patiently Cats, Love, Lucy xx