As one of the unholy trinity mentioned, I would like to speak up for one of us.

I have met Kevin, and I have met and encountered many bullies in my time also.

The terms chalk and cheese come to mind. As less likely candidate for a bully, that I can think of.

Maybe it was not quite the correct word to use?

Now as for the other two?

As the comments came from a 'guest', maybe it should not worry us too much? I have had worse..........