"What I do dislike is some of the absolutism displayed by people who don't live in these Isles, let alone Ireland. We should be listening to the people who live there regardless of which side they are from and attempt to understand. The reason I believe the peace process will work is that there are ordinary people in the North who are willing to do that at a personal level, and that takes some courage. In years to come their efforts will pay dividends - I hope."

(My editing, underlined for clarity, BTW)

Absolutely correct Jack, my view too.