"Ignore history and you are doomed to repeat it."

Based on some of what is posted in this thread, I don't believe I understand the full impact of what has happened. I would like to understand so that I can learn a lesson from it.

"Let it go" - it seems to me that if you refuse to forgive someone *ever* then you are not letting go.

"Let us all move on" - Move on to where? Around in a circle so that the same kind of thing is repeated in a year or so? I'd rather learn from the situation so as to prevent it in the future.

Personal Messages to me are welcome and encouraged if anyone can explain to me the destruction and harm that was caused to the Forum, or if you don't want to expose your hurt in a public thread. Or if you just want to tell me to go take a flying leap.