Never mind looks. Never mind money. If he doesn't get your jokes, it's hopeless.

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We had a library book in the home recently. I forget the title and author, but it was about 'social evolution.' One statistic stays with me. It is that the young female in a May-December marriage is at high risk of being murdered by her husband. I mean, compared to other wives.

Since it is usually mature men who have lots of money, I think that puts the kibosh on their general attractiveness.