Ok, my turn..sorry, I was away, today.....Don, do you have children?
Would you be happy, if your children, witnessing your permissive attitude, in regards to your friend's situation, may think it perfectly alright to become homosexuals, and have that same kind of relationship?

Note: At this time, I have to ask you that. Before you answer, just honestly think, and tell me. Don't worry about whether your answer is 'correct' or not,..just,..Do you want your children to acknowledge, and pursue that 'lifestyle'?