I don't see that anyone would really find your "raise your hand" list objectionable, Gfs, although different individuals could recite some of the catagories with the intention of implying different things. But let's add a couple:

How many of you were raised by your natural parents, who in one way or another made it difficult or impossible for you to mature into a happy functional adult?

How many of you were raised by adults other than your natural parents, who taught you to respect them, yourself, and others around you, whether or not those others were of similar background or beliefs?

I'm sure we could come up with a few more variations.