Thank you all. I still don't know how I do. I just do... go on. Does it get easier? I can't answer that yet. I feel less dysfunctional, more able to cope with memories and out of the blue reminders. But I don't know if it is easier.

The title of this thread is Mudcatter Fin. Did Fin post here on Mudcat? Might be nice to have a link to her posts on this thread so people can get to know her?