"I know I have been crabby ..... no, a complete asshole, at times.."

Let's get one thing straight, chum. After all you've been going through, I'd be worried if you weren't at least "crabby". Hrmph. Now, that being said, remember a few tips. You've been under so much stress for so long that you've probably forgotten a few of these, so:
1) Drive extra carefully, because stress slows your reaction time.
2) Your reading level goes down under stress. You'll still be able to read instructions, etc. but you'll have trouble reading a light novel. It'll come back, though.
3) Ditto short term memory. Write yourself notes.
4) Same for general cognative stuff. Take your time signing legal documents, erc. if you can.

We're pulling for you, even if we can't give you corporeal hugs and backrubs.

And as soon as I get home from work (about 30 minutes), The Genuine Purebred Midwestern $#@!-reduction candle series for you and yours will be started up.

Thanks for letting us know what's going on. Take care, Hollowfox