I can understand how you might see things that way, but I think the pros far outweigh the cons by a massive proportion.

There are a lot of opinions and everyone wants to be heard, but its just words and I don't let them bother me for more than a few minutes at the most.

Sorry to hear you were attacked on your first visit, I hope you stick around and enjoy the good bits.

I suspect that you wouldn't have posted if you intended to quit, but thats no reason to deny you some reassurance.