Mrz, it's been 27 years since I was in the dating game, so I really don't know. Daughter Kate, 15, goes "out" with only 1 boy at a time, but it is serial monogomy. Each one seems to last less than 2 months. She has LOTS of male "buds", and everybody calls everybody."Hanging Out" in large groups seems acceptable, too. I don't know about sexual mores, anymore, and probably don't want to know..........(*BG*)Try just doing what you feel comfortable with, and glad you are feeling better!