at my age, we have thrown all that gobbledegook out the window. I only date intelligent, independent women who firmly believe they are not bound by silly rules such as, Girls dont call boys.What a crock. If a woman doesn't call me, I surmise that she doesn't want to, because,if she does want to and fails to, she lacks the spunk that I find attractive. So, it wouldn't work anyway. Yes, I have been approached many times, and, I ALSO have the right to say, "No thanks." I'll tell you this much, women take rejection a hell of a lot harder than men do.
Actually, my only problem is..I'm only attracted to interesting, independent women with high IQ's. The thing is, if they are smart enough to be attractive to me, they are also smart enough to avoid me!